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Ben Romans
songwriter*artist

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theclickfive.com
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Namugongo Fund for Special Children




There's no easy way to say goodbye

December 18, 2008

The day after the show was unpredictable.

Joey, Ethan, and Matt (or stage manager) left for the airport at about 4am after the show.  The rest of us stayed an extra day**...

Spent some time by the pool reading "The Road of Lost Innocence" by Somaly Mam (a striking eye-opener to sex trafficking in Cambodia).

We were invited by the US Ambassador in Thailand to visit the embassy.  This was completely amazing to see the office, and then even more so when he invited us over to his house (!!!) to hang out.  He and his wife were extremely kind and hospitable.  We had MUCH to talk about as they has an amazing art collection in his house, and are huge music fans (Fountain's of Wayne is always on the iPod he says).  The mangos were delicious (the princess's mangos) and the conversation was warm.  

Shortly after we went over to the MTV house to meet up with the MTV Exit folks who have been nothing short of spectacular in helping us out this entire trip and work incredibly hard to raise awareness against human trafficking.  I think the house would be the closest thing I could describe to... the Real World Bangkok.  Stopped by a friend's place, and chatted about water-skiing and wake-boarding- they're professionals... that's what they do for a living! (Pretty cool).

It was after midnight, and I could feel the 30 hours of travel (or whatever it is) approaching.  We were scheduled to leave for the airport at 4am.  I started to take a nap at the MTV house, when I was woken up to an excited Kyle saying... WE GOT OUR FLIGHTS CHANGED!  

 

... **so then we headed to Ko Samet island for an extra 2 1/2 days.  

Sometimes it's just hard to say goodbye to a place you love.  

Spent most of my time relaxing/reading on the beach... and tearing through the island's forest on a motor bike until I found secret clearings and beaches.  For some reason, I can write better (songs) or at least gather the pieces when in slightly dangerous situations (motorbikes, surfing, skiing).  

Now I'm looking at the clock again.  4am will approach soon.  The other guys went out, but I'm just too tired.  Long flight ahead.  I can't wait to see my family for Christmas.  Then...

... I think we owe it to the world to make one of the finer records we have ever made... if we didn't after this trip, something wouldn't be right.  Gotta hit 'em with a lot of love and a lot of melody...

 

Peace

 

Comments
Cui Ying said: it's pretty awesome! and take a rest ben :)
Wan-Chieh,Chiang said: You really need to take a rest.:) Missing you guys.
Lauren Eberle said: i haven't gotten further than your asteriks and all i can say is - YOU WENT TO KO SAMET?! so jealous! i love ko samet. my sister spent her 22nd birthday there and has probably the greatest stories ever to be told about ko samet including (but not limited to) a flame thrower with only one eye falling in love with her and teaching her how to juggle fire.
Zerlina said: hey, how was samet? can't believe you're waiting for 4am to come around again. we had fun hanging out with you guys from siem reap to phnom penh to bangkok, thanks for being such an awesome bunch & for making our work worthwhile. pls send my love to dave, joe kyle. safe trip home & enjoy the holidays. (p.s. i've got some pix taken @ Somaly's shelter (Tom Dy), lemme know if u like any.)
Jenni Foley said: Sounds like this trip was an eye opener for you all. Safe travels and happy holidays!!
Laura Maniscalco said: the trip of a lifetime!! LOL at lauren's comment!
Laura Maniscalco said: the trip of a lifetime!! LOL at lauren's comment!
Gennine D said: I really can't wait to hear this music!
michelle cambodia said: i'm so glade that u guys enjoy ur trip :)
May said: Happy holidays to you Ben and the rest of the Click Five. You deserve some rest after all the charity work you have done. The world loves you but Beantown loves you more. Can't wait to see you guys again! Enjoy the time off with your families. No band deserves it more than you. You guys not only go through the motions but you actually feel what you are experiencing! That is why we love The Click Five so much. Your music is beyond phenomenal. You guys are so giving and loving. Thanks for always sharing your experiences and thoughts. It means more to your fans than you could ever know.Lots of love and peace in the New Year. Love ya lots!
michelle cambodia said: no pictures or video from ur trip to cambodia ??? share it pls i really wanna see :)
Therese said: Good job. Can't wait to see and hear more from you guys soon. Take a rest for a while...
Sylvia Wu said: omg I love Ko Samet!!!
Krystal Gustafson said: Whoa! ben when I saw the title for this blog I was like "Oh no! Please don't tell me another member left!" But no, I am so glad to hear about your great success! Keep it up man! You are awesome! I can't wait to hear the record and am so glad to hear you're so dedicated. :)
Top said: Thank you Ben. for letting me know when u guys go back home.i read this before u leave just 2 hours godd!....i just wanna see you guys before leaving and dont know when i'll see you again.i hope u could remember me the girl at the airport lol i know u do lol. u had a lot of fun in Thailand right? u guys looked so tired but i hope u had an awesome trip overhere. im glad to know that u love thailand . keep up working n the new album. im waiting for it.i love u guys forever. ps. thanks for the hug and taking pics with us lol ^3^ n hope the burger kings dont make u feel bad for that morning lol.
Margot Sanchez said: Have you tried Philippine mangoes yet? :>
Pantida said: Hey Ben!! U guys went to Ko Samet island !!! How's there?? Hope u can remember 2 girls at the hotel and we gave u a glasses!! Hope u back soon,and hav a concert.... Love u
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