the dash

i can't believe i've never come across this poem before, but a wonderful girl named Robyn shared it with me yesterday and I felt compelled to share it with the blogging word.

The Dash Poem
by Linda Ellis

I read of a man who stood to speak
At the funeral of a friend
He referred to the dates on her tombstone
From the beginning to the end

He noted that first came the date of her birth
And spoke the following date with tears,
But he said what mattered most of all
Was the dash between those years

For that dash represents all the time
That she spent alive on earth.
And now only those who loved her
Know what that little line is worth.

For it matters not how much we own;
The cars, the house, the cash,
What matters is how we live and love
And how we spend our dash.

So think about this long and hard.
Are there things you’d like to change?
For you never know how much time is left,
That can still be rearranged.

If we could just slow down enough
To consider what’s true and real
And always try to understand
The way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger,
And show appreciation more
And love the people in our lives
Like we’ve never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect,
And more often wear a smile
Remembering that this special dash
Might only last a little while.

So, when your eulogy is being read
With your life’s actions to rehash
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash?

I avoided MySpace and Facebook for the most part yesterday, so I'm just getting to my comments and messages, and I cannot believe how much love and support was sent from so many people. I am so moved and thankful. I keep saying this, but I wish I could express how grateful I am and how much it means to me. I only hope I am able to return the love and support.

Stay tuned for another blog coming very soon. I think I need a nap first ;)

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